Peel the pomelo and separate the flesh into bite-sized chunks. Set aside.
In a dry wok or skillet over medium heat, toast the shredded coconut until golden and fragrant. Set aside.
Using the same pan, dry roast the peanuts until lightly golden. Set aside.
In a little oil, fry the shallots first until golden and crispy. Remove and drain, then repeat with the garlic.
In a large mixing bowl, combine the chili paste, fresh lime juice, salt, and palm sugar. Stir well until the sugar dissolves.
Add the pomelo chunks to the dressing and gently toss until everything is evenly coated.
Sprinkle in the roasted coconut, roasted peanuts, fried shallots, fried garlic, kaffir lime leaves, and chilies. Toss lightly to combine. Serve fresh, and enjoy the crunchy, zesty flavors!